How Many times should I forgive?

WOW is all I can say about our Message at Church this morning. It totally challenged me and made me think about a lot of things.

These are some observations about Human Nature.
We often hate in others in others what we see in ourselves. For instance it annoys me when people are late but yet I am always getting somewhere a couple of minutes late. It annoys me when people do not call me back but I do the same thing. See my point:)

We can not forgive as long as we stay the Victim. How many people do we know in this world that are the Victim. They love playing it. If I had a better job I would have more money. If I had more friends yet they do not want to be a friend. If I had a bigger house I would be happy. If My Wife or Husband treated me better I would be happier. Never taking their own actions for account. They make themselves weaker than they really are because they are always blaming other things to not be happy. Who really wants to live like that.

Unforgiveness is its own Prison.. We forgive others because we learn enough about God that we want to be loved enough that we are able to. Are you following me? Where does the Power to forgive come from? God.

Bottom Line is Forgiven people forgive. They are the only ones that truly can. Just liked Loved People Love people.

I think people that have a hard time letting things go is because deep down they are incapable of asking for forgiveness so they can not forgive. I am so glad that I know I am just a wretch saved my Grace. I know that I am not perfect I should ask for forgiveness every day from God, my Husband, friends. This allows me to forgive people easier when some one does something wrong against me. It is a whether freeing feeling:) You should try it.